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Sustaining the collaborative mindset

In a previous post I touched upon the behaviours associated with the different levels on the maturity continuum.

At the level of Dependency you tend to see Collusive behaviours.  Rather than challenge ideas and processes a dependent individual seeks to avoid risk and conflict in order that their survival is assured.

At the level of Independence the desire for status, recognition and reward drives behaviours that enable the individual to stand out from others.  We see Competitive behaviours.

At the level of Interdependence the quest is for the synergistic solution, a solution that requires the combined efforts of a group and so we see Collaborative behaviours.

What happens when the group searching for the synergistic solution gets into difficulties, when the level of challenge and conflict within the group may get a little too intense? Could it be that rather than choosing to give the response that keeps collaboration alive, an instinct / reactive response is given to a stimulus such as someone challenging an idea?  An instinctive / reactive response is not a PROACTIVE response.

If a group abandons collaborative behaviour the only place to go is back to the competitive behaviours.  When this happens you will see defensive behaviours, blaming, judging emerge.  The group breaks down and the competitive individuals can emerge and seek to dominate proceedings.

How do you sustain the collaborative mindset – where the output of the group is greater than any individual?

The art of collaboration is turning conflict into a positive force – in the spark of conflict lives creativity.  I’ve already discussed the concept of being RESPONSE-ABLE and choosing to be PROACTIVE.  A useful paradigm to help with this is PERCEPTION IS PROJECTION.  Essentially, this maxim suggests that what we perceive in other people is merely a reflection of our own self, otherwise how would we recognize a behaviour in someone else.  Acting as if this is true helps keep relationships collaborative, if making judgments about others (defensive behaviour or competitive behaviour is based upon judgments) is merely describing your own behaviour, why bother?

Being RESPONSE-ABLE and recognising that every behaviour has a positive intention and can be used to propel the group to a synergistic outcome is the way to sustain the collaborative mindset.

In future blogs I will explore more of the attitudes and beliefs that help sustain the collaborative mindset.

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Collaborating through Interdependence…the Mindset (2)

In my previous post I described the choice that is made to be Interdependent and to collaborate.  This choice is the foundation stone of all effective relationships (interdependent collaborative relationships being the most effective form of relationship you can have).

Having made the choice, sustaining the choice is the next step.  In my last blog I used the phrase ‘RESPONSE-ABLE’.  I’d like to expand on this phrase during this blog today.

In any relationship stuff is going to happen, its inevitable!  What’s important is not that stuff happens, its how you choose to deal with what’s happening that makes the difference.  How well you choose to respond is what will build your credibility in the relationship and this will build the trust in the relationship.  With a high level of trust in your relationship collaboration will work.

So am I saying here that your effectiveness in collaboration is simply based upon following through on your initial choice to be PROACTIVE and to be the CAUSE of your own SUCCESS?  Yes I am.

Why be RESPONSE-ABLE?

Conditioning plays a major role in all our decisions and to a large extent we behave in ways that have been practiced over many years.  Our behaviour patterns become habits, the result of conditioning.  When something happens, by this I mean when someone says something, does something etc, this is a STIMULUS.  When a stimulus is applied we respond.  It is in the RESPONSE where you make a difference!

In the animal world a specific stimulus generates a specific response.  Animals tend not to have the mental capacity to choose a different response, unless they have been trained to give another ‘specific’ response.  As humans we have the mental capacity to choose our response.  Between STIMULUS and RESPONSE there is a space: the CHOICE space.  It is in this space where you can choose your response to whatever stimulus has been applied.  This is where you can be RESPONSE-ABLE.

Being proactive is being response-able.  Choosing to be open to responding to whatever stimuli present themselves to you in such a way as to stay focused on your outcome is vital to your success.  In collaborative relationships there will be ample opportunities for you to practice this ability.  Your collaboration partners (and you on occasion) will behave in ways that create the opportunity for proactivity to be challenged.  Remember, your interpretation of events is your choice and response-ability.  What people do is merely what people do, what you choose to do with what people do is entirely your choice.

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The Starting Point for Collaboration

Lets be clear here, if there is just one of you there is no collaboration.

So on the basis that collaboration requires at least two parties there is an essential pre-requisite that has to be fully developed within the mindset of all potential collaborators!

This is not the joint outcome, nor it is the Relationship Management Plan. It’s not even the potential gain to be made as a result of working collaboratively and delivering extra value for the client. The essential pre-requisite is none of the above.

On the basis that two or more parties are choosing to collaborate to find a synergistic solution to a deliver a client’s objective the essential pre-requisite is the attitude of the collaborators to each other.

The best way I can think of describing what I mean here is the Maturity Continuum as described by Dr. Stephen R. Covey in his best selling work, ‘The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People’.

For a collaborative relationship to be effective the essential pre-requisite is that all parties come from an INTERDEPENDENCE mindset.  Choosing to be INTERDEPENDENT is a choice only INDEPENDENT people can make.  People that have achieved INDEPENDENCE in life may see this level of achievement as the ultimate, as having achieved Self-Mastery.  The fact that two or more INDEPENDENT people can achieve something much greater by choosing to be INTERDEPENDENT is a revelation to most.

Before a person achieves INDEPENDENCE they are in a state of DEPENDENCE where they rely on others for what they require to exist.  A DEPENDENT person cannot operate from a mindset of INTERDEPENDENCE as they have not developed the character of an INDEPENDENT person.

This is important in the field of Collaborative Behaviour as with each level of maturity comes a set of behaviours.

People that are Dependent tend to demonstrate COLLUSIVE behaviours.  These people rely on others for what they need and hence they go along with what others want, not wanting to rock the boat for fear of depriving themselves of a livelihood.

People that are Independent tend to demonstrate COMPETITIVE behaviours.  These people have the confidence to put themselves forward as being able to deliver a solution and believe they have the resources to compete against others to ensure they win the race.

People that are Interdependent tend to demonstrate COLLABORATIVE behaviours.  These people recognise that by choosing to collaborate with others a truly synergistic solution can be delivered.  These people recognise that by working effectively with others the synergistic solution is far greater than anything they could deliver by themselves.

Being INTERDEPENDENT and being COLLABORATIVE is a choice made by independent people that truly understand there is only so much that can be achieved by themselves – true greatness and success lies in working effectively with others.

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Collaboration

Collaboration is working with each other to do a task and to achieve shared goals. It is a recursive process where two or more people or organisations work together to realize shared goals, (this is more than the intersection of common goals seen in co-operative ventures, but a deep, collective determination to reach an identical objective) — for example, an endeavour that is creative in nature —by sharing knowledge, learning and building consensus. In particular, teams that work collaboratively can obtain greater resources, recognition and reward when facing competition for finite resources. (Thanks Wikipedia!) The challenge of collaboration is staying focused on the greater shared goal.  Conflict over different approaches, different ideas, competitive pressures will surface.  Dealing positively with conflict is the art of collaboration.  Consider if you will a member of a team with a strong belief in their way of doing things.  Their belief is so strong that any challenge to their way of doing things is usually a source of great tension within the team.  This is not a helpful trait when it comes to collaboration.  A useful matrix to consider when looking to build a collaborative team is how the members of your team view themselves and others. If you have a high regard for yourself and a low level of regard for others, this will not be helpful in a collaborative relationship. If you have low regard for yourself and a high level of regard for others, this will also not be very helpful in a collaborative relationship. If ‘people’ including yourself are just not that important to you, this will not be very helpful in a collaborative relationship. Collaborative relationships work best when an individual values themselves and  others equally highly. Seek First Ltd specialise in developing the behaviours and language that build self-awareness (your regard for you), behaviours and language that build an understanding of others (how you regard others), behaviours and language that develop your influencing skills and behaviours and language that lead to effective collaborative action. Over the coming months this blog will go into more details about collaborative behaviour and language.  Our first Collaborative Behaviour Practitioner programme will be taking place in London this Autumn.  Contact us now for more information. email: listen@seekfirst.co.uk phone: 07740506667

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Engage, Listen, Develop, Collaborate.

Collaborative Behaviour + collaborative processes = Collaborative working

Seek First Ltd exists to develop the behaviours and language that underpin collaborative business relationships.

Why is this important?

When organisations collaborate effectively significant value can be created for their clients.  Increasingly, organisations are being asked to demonstrate how effectively they collaborate with their partner organisations to deliver value for their clients.  With the introduction of BS11000 organisations can now be assessed against the accepted standard for business processes that underpin their approach to collaboration.

Seek First exists to support organisations develop the behaviours and language that will support the processes required by BS11000.  Whilst BS11000 specifies the organizational processes necessary for effective collaborative relationships between organisations the standard does not develop the behaviours and language that will embed the culture of collaboration.

This blog will develop over the coming months to highlight the behaviours and language of collaboration.  We will give insights into the development programmes that we offer that will develop the culture of collaboration within your organisation.

Feel free to contact us to discuss how we can assist you on your journey towards greater collaboration.

Email: listen@seekfirst.co.uk

Phone: 07740506667

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Working from the Proactive Space

At Seek First Ltd we seek to create a Proactive world where Organisations, Teams and Individuals engage respectfully and show appreciation for the contributions of all their colleagues.  We develop a culture of high performing teams and leaders within our client organisations through embedding accountability and empowerment within all our development programmes.  At the core of all our work we create a proactive space in which our clients can achieve their most stretching outcomes.